Friday, February 20, 2026

The Pornification of Cinema

 From Elisabeth Stone:

Desire needs to be surrounded by structure, things such as family, honor, reputation. Without it, desire becomes unbridled lust, a fire that consumes anything it touches. Structure is the only thing that can create tension, and tension creates longing, and longing is what gives us depth.

It turns out that giving in to your every desire does not lead to fulfillment, but to a road of emptiness, to the inability to experience romance or love with true depth and actual meaning.

It is no wonder, then, that in our culture people chase the only high they can find, which is the thrill of new beginnings, the rush of meeting someone new. When you build romance on something as shallow as lust and impulse, the fire will burn bright, yes, but it will die out just as fast.

Look at Bridgerton. It presents itself like an old-world romance. The gowns. The courtship. The family names. The dramatic rules. It wants the aesthetic of tradition. It wants the tension. It wants the feeling of something structured and meaningful.

But it doesn’t actually believe in any of it. (Read more.)

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