Tea at Trianon: Housewife vs SAHM

John Wilson Croker on Marie-Antoinette

"We have followed the history of Marie Antoinette with the greatest diligence and scrupulosity. We have lived in those times. We have talked with some of her friends and some of her enemies; we have read, certainly not all, but hundreds of the libels written against her; and we have, in short, examined her life with– if we may be allowed to say so of ourselves– something of the accuracy of contemporaries, the diligence of inquirers, and the impartiality of historians, all combined; and we feel it our duty to declare, in as a solemn a manner as literature admits of, our well-matured opinion that every reproach against the morals of the queen was a gross calumny– that she was, as we have said, one of the purest of human beings."

~from History of the Guillotine by John Wilson Croker, 1844

Edmund Burke on Marie-Antoinette

"It is now sixteen or seventeen years since I saw the queen of France, then dauphiness, at Versailles; and surely there never lighted on this orb, which she hardly seemed to touch, a more delightful vision. I saw her just above the horizon, decorating and cheering the elevated sphere she had just begun to move in, glittering like a morning star full of life and splendor and joy. Oh, what a revolution....Little did I dream that I should have lived to see such disasters fall upon her, in a nation of gallant men, in a nation of men of honor and of cavaliers! I thought ten thousand swords must have leaped from their scabbards, to avenge even a look which threatened her with insult. But the age of chivalry is gone; that of sophisters, economists, and calculators has succeeded...."

~Edmund Burke, October 1790

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Housewife vs SAHM

There a difference between being a housewife and a "Stay-at-Home-Mom," according to the insights provided HERE. (Thanks, Jennifer!) To quote:

Completely focused on my children, I was forgetting that my husband also needed me. I was dressed like a slob when he got home from work, if I was dressed at all. That first year of marriage, I was frequently still in my pajamas when he got home.

Now, as a housewife first, I try to think of my husband first when planning meals. After all, he goes out and uses his valuable time and effort to support us. Shouldn't we, in turn, use our valuable time and effort to support him? Yes, he is supporting monetarily. Since we cannot return that favor, shouldn't we do all that we can to support him emotionally?