Monday, June 13, 2022

No Fathers, No Hope

 From Dr. Esolen at Law and Liberty:

Why do men work, says the poet Charles Peguy, if not for their children? The father throws himself away in hope, looking forward to the time when he will be no more on earth than a name or a rumor of a name but his children will be alive, and people will say of him—if they remember him at all—that he was a good man but his children are better. He hands on his old tools to his sons, tools shiny with the wear of his hands. He watches his children grow and is proud: he does not want them always to be babies. And when the young children come up to him for a kiss before they go to bed at night, and “they bend their neck laughing like a young, like a beautiful colt, and their neck, and the nape of their neck, and their whole head,” the father places his kiss right upon their crown, “the center of their hair, the birth-place, the source, the point of origin of their hair.” (This is from The Portal of the Mystery of Hope, published posthumously in French in 1929; Peguy himself died a hero’s death in 1914, in the first weeks of the Great War.)

Marcel picks up on this insight from Peguy, that fathers are the “great adventurers of the modern world,” accepting the risk of a big family, instead of simply “acquiring life as one puts electricity or central heating into a house.” The father, he says, makes a creative vow. He does not say, “I will give only so far.” I knew a woman once who told her husband that she would agree to have a second child only on condition that he buy her an expensive sports car. He found the arrangement to his taste. That was, as Marcel says, “incompatible with the inward eagerness of a being who is irresistibly impelled to welcome life with gratitude.” No one in our time looks askance at a woman living alone with five cats. Our politics and economics seem aimed at producing old women with cats. And whole great sections of society, formal and informal, public and private, look askance at a happily married woman with five children, who devotes her day to making a lively home for them. A lonely revolution has it been. (Read more.)
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