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From Beth Berry:
How can this be? How can such a wealth of information be both increasing our understanding AND decreasing our sense of self-worth?
It’s quite simple, really. Our brains aren’t wired for this much intake. We’re suffering from not from actual inadequacy, but from a false sense of ourselves that has reached epidemic proportions.
I call this collective confusion Mythological Motherhood.
A concept I describe at length in Motherwhelmed (my
book-in-progress), Mythological Motherhood is the modern phenomenon
responsible for the discontent, disillusionment and disconnect plaguing
parents of every demographic. It speaks to the enormous gap between what
we believe to be possible (based on stories we’re both being told and sold) and the way our current realities look and feel. The greater this gap, the more of these myths a person has likely subscribed to.
The consequence of this mass mythology (presented to us as TRUTH) is
an entire generation of mothers who — though more attentive,
compassionate, involved, patient, knowledgeable and educated than any
other group of mothers since the beginning of time — suffers from so
much self-doubt, inadequacy and overwhelm that we barely even benefit from our position of relative privilege.
It’s tragic, but it’s also a trend we’re capable of reversing. (Read more.)
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I am happy to have had my own mother around to give me aid and reinforcement when I was a young mother. I feel sorry for any young mother who was not so lucky. She is no longer around, and even though I am no longer a young mother, I still need her and miss her.
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