Sunday, March 15, 2026

Chastity is How We See God

From Pondus Meum Amor Meus:

Chastity is vital. This much is clear. But I want us to understand how important it is to all of us at all times, whether you’re single, celibate, married, old, or young.

Chastity is a virtue, which means it’s a positive, life-giving presence infused into us. Chastity is not limited to only mortification and penance against our bodies. It is not exclusively negative, or defined by what we are trying to escape from. Of course, the spiritual life is disciplined and includes penance, meaning we make every effort to flee from sin. We strive to maintain custody of the eyes, and modesty, and to reject disordered desires.

But we get chastity wrong if we think of it only as a lack. A Christian is not someone who withdraws, who cedes the world to evil, who escapes. Quite the opposite. We are here to redeem the world, to replant paradise, to build the City of God. We are for the world. Virtue is not emptiness. It is plenitude, a joyful happiness so overwhelming that we hardly know how it can fit into this world. It spills out of us as if over the lip of a chalice and we feast in the presence of our enemies.

If being unchaste is defined by turning people and things into objects of lust, and if it is the debasement of our senses, then chastity is the virtue whereby we heal the senses and, instead of objectifying and selfish use of the created world, our chastened senses deliver us through the threshold of beauty into wholeness. The senses are lifted up and transfigured, unveiling intelligible forms that lead into the unity of God. (Read more.)


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