From
DuJour:
Despite her own substantial fame, Melania is rarely photographed by
paparazzi. That’s by design, she explains. “I have a life. I go out
every day. I bring my son to school. I pick him up. I’m not an attention
seeker. I’m not the one who calls paparazzi, ‘I have lunch with the
girlfriends, and I’m going to this restaurant.’ ” I ask her what those
after-school pick-ups are like; I can imagine her, like many of my
friends with young kids, being forced to make awkward small talk with
the other moms and nannies as they wait outside for the kids. “I get
along,” she says, sincerely. “[With] the moms at the school pick-up,
it’s ‘Hello, how are you?’ But it’s not friends friends. I like quality over quantity.”
Indeed, she isn’t the type to spend every night on the town. She is
active in several charities—the American Red Cross and the Boys’ Club of
New York—but she prefers time with her son to red carpet events,
telling me about Saturdays spent on the sidelines of his baseball games
in Central Park.
“I was there taking pictures and videos, quietly so he
didn’t see me. I was never screaming or cheering. I know my son and he
would say, ‘Stop it.’ ” She is up at five forty-five most weekday
mornings to have some time to herself before she wakes Barron, whom she
once described as a mini-Donald—at 7 years old, he preferred a
suit-and-tie to sweats, though he’s long since outgrown that phase. “The
third floor is Barron’s,” she says. “It’s much easier that way. For him
as well. He has friends over, he has his toys. He has a play date
tomorrow and is bringing two friends over. They come here, they go
upstairs and they play. They kick a ball, they play with iPads. I don’t
allow Xbox before homework is done.”
Marrying a celebrity, Melania says, requires strength. “When you walk
in a room, everybody knows the person. Sometimes people see you with
that man and maybe they know more about the man, and they judge you or
see you differently. You need to know who you are and you need to be
very secure. You need to stand up for yourself. You need to have your
own yes and no.” When Donald is on the road campaigning, they talk
several times a day, but there is no evening routine. “We don’t Skype,”
she says. “We don’t text. He’s only a phone person. No e-mails and no
texts.”
As she repeats more than once, she is fiercely independent. Before
Donald announced his candidacy, “I said to him, ‘You really need to
think, because our family life will change.’ The three of us will
change. I know what it takes, traveling and all that stuff. I told him
if he really wanted to do that I would support him 100 percent. But I
would also be a mom first, I would be with our son, I would be home. Our
son needs parents, and I don’t want somebody other than me taking care
of him. We made that decision. It’s a big decision [to run], and a
selfless decision. To go into that is very selfless because of what
we’re going through.” (Read more.)
Melania's statement regarding Donald's apology is
HERE.
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