Saturday, December 1, 2012

Very Bad for You

The Pill. To quote:
The separation of sex and procreation has also spawned the deadly plague of America’s largest entertainment industry: pornography.  The author refers to surveys reporting that “65% of boys age sixteen and seventeen report having friends who regularly download Internet pornography… and another study relates that “watching sex on television predicts adolescent initiation of sexual behavior,” while a third finds that “men who use pornography have lost the ability to relate or be close to women. They have trouble being turned on by ‘real’ women and their sex lives, with their girls or wives, collapse.” In addition, the use of the Pill or other forms of contraception along with alcohol produce what Eberstadt refers to as “the hook-up” culture at ‘Toxic U.” This environment was memorably portrayed in author Tom Wolfe’s novel I am Charlotte Simmons.

One campus psychiatrist has written a book that details the common denominators of his college patients: “drinking to oblivion, drugging, one night sex, sexually transmitted diseases and all the rest of the hook up-culture trappings.” A Washington Post writer reports that hooking up has become the “primary” sexual interaction of the young.

Eberstadt points out that one way to push back Toxic U is to bring back early marriage. The most compelling reason for the hookup culture is not a change in human nature. It is not even a caving in to peer pressure. It is, rather, a perverse efficiency.  Students who do not expect to marry anyone they meet in college have no reason to “invest” in their romantic partners. The greatest victims are young women, whose nature is being ignored at great peril—to them. They are weaker constitutionally in the sense that the very behaviors that define “Toxic U—binge drinking and hooking up—are documented and said by all, including remorseful girls themselves, to be more likely to damage girls than boys.” (Read entire article.)


LC Douglass said...

I would agree. I came to the conclusion awhile ago that young males (by which I mean, up to age 45, sigh), do not commit unless it is pressed upon them or they have **individual** and personal reasons for wanting to do so. Society no longer provides them with a general demand for commitment and associated expectations of respect for females, nor does society give them any understanding of its benefits.

julygirl said...

Nothing new under the Sun regarding the sexual drive of young people except..and this is a biggie...the lax social taboos that prevail today against premarital sex and 'hooking up'. That went a long way in my day toward encouraging chastity, that, and fear of my mother, a healthy fear I must add. LOL. Saved me from falling into lots of muck and mire.