Matriarchy and promiscuity sustain one another. For as long as women expect support from the fathers of their children, male promiscuity will lead to distress and declining fertility as women fail to find committed partners. This is the world Bolick inhabits along with other New York singles. But when women give up on men’s playing an important role in the household and turn to one another instead, accepting the financial and emotional costs of raising one another’s children, promiscuity becomes, in a sense, safe. It also becomes inevitable, as men, who become increasingly less likely to meet the standards set by female heads of household, are no longer willing or able to sustain long-term commitment.Share
It is foreseeable that the growing promiscuity of college campuses and the young-adult scene will push more middle-class, educated women like Bolick into female-led households, raising children fathered by absent partners, adopted, or artificially conceived. Traditionally in the West, women did not think they could survive without a male partner. If this is not true for the Mosuo in China or for poor single mothers in urban ghettos, certainly it need not be true for modern middle-class educated women, who experience far fewer unexpected challenges to physical safety or occasions requiring the exercise of brute physical strength. We could, at least in principle, become a largely matriarchal society, or at least one with a dominant matriarchal subculture. (Read entire article.)
The Mystical Doctor
1 week ago
4 comments:
Is this acceptable to say? but remember when a promiscuous woman was called a "slut?" There was a reason for it !
Lorraine
Except that there was no name for a promiscuous male....
"Cad" or "dick" spring to mind, Julygirl. A man who can use a woman--and/or many women--for his own gratification without considering her situation merits the terms, I think. And, that also seems to be the prevailing thought back in the day. According to my grandfather at least. <><
Old matriarchy was evil:
matriarch.czechian.net/en.htm
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