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From
Monsignor Charles Pope:
We see it everywhere:
- Bored children sit in classrooms, almost incapable of staying
focused to listen to the simplest instruction, sneaking peeks at their
phones for something more interesting.
- Teenagers at family gatherings barely speak to one another, let
alone to the adults; they sit alone in a corner with their earbuds in,
lost in games or videos on their phones. Trying to break in with a
simple “Hi” yields a grunt or irritable glance in return. And don’t
expect any eye contact!
- Even in public places like the subway or the sidewalk of a city
street, many people are lost in their devices, inwardly focused, barely
noticing the humanity around them.
- I recently asked a priest personal director what he thought was the
biggest difference between younger and older clergy. I expected him to
say something about theological differences, but he surprised me by
replying, “Younger clergy do not answer their phones. They just text.”
It seems that real conversations, even if only by phone, are on the outs
with a generation raised on electronic devices.
In a thoughtful article published in First Things, Patricia
Snow writes about the effects on high school and college students of
extended immersion in cell phones (and other devices). I want to take up
her call: “Look at me!” She begins by describing the problem and its
symptoms:
Inevitably, in some of our young
people especially, we are reaping deficits in emotional intelligence
and empathy; loneliness, but also fears of unrehearsed conversations and
intimacy; difficulties forming attachments but also difficulties
tolerating solitude and boredom. … The teachers tell … that their
students don’t make eye contact or read body language, have trouble
listening, and don’t seem interested in each other, all markers of
autism spectrum disorder. … Students are so caught up in their phones,
one teacher says, “they don’t know how to pay attention to class or to
themselves or to another person or to look in each other’s eyes and see
what is going on.” Another says uneasily, “It is as though they all have
some signs of being on an Asperger’s spectrum …. [Yet] we are talking
about a school wide problem.”
(Read more.)
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