30 Unspoken Rules Of Etiquette That Every Southerner Follows

 From Southern Living:

First of all, we're happy to report that the more draconian dining/entertaining rules for children have loosened considerably over the years. Back in the day, children were to be "seen and not heard" when company came over. Or at the very least "speak only when spoken to." When Mama entertained the preacher, the young'uns didn't eat till the good reverend had finished, and he always got the "pulley-bone." Nowadays, there's plenty of Publix fried chicken for everybody. Still, some dining restrictions apply . . . and Mama has other rules, as well. 

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• When friends come over, children should let their guests choose the games and the snacks. It teaches consideration and courtesy.
• Speaking of refreshments, we always offer some, even if they're simple. And we always take some (or at least offer to) whenever we attend a gathering, be it a barbecue or a funeral.
• Always send a thank-you note (not a text) for a gift.

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