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What unites all of these scandals is homosexuality in our seminaries
and the priesthood: the result of the Church ignoring its own clear
directives. If it is serious about ending the sex scandals, the Church
needs to admit it has a homosexual priest problem and stop ordaining men
with deep-seated homosexual tendencies. The first “Uncle Ted” scandal
was “Uncle Ted” becoming a priest.
I broach the subject with trepidation. I am convinced that most
homosexual priests are good and holy men. One example of many I know is a
priest who serves as a hospital chaplain. He regularly accompanies
families through the pain of physical trauma, illness, and the death of
loved ones. He has a special charism for men dying with AIDS, which I’m
certain comes from his love for others with deep-seated homosexual
tendencies like him. He has helped many of them reconcile with Christ
before death.
So I agree with Bishop Barron’s warning
about the dangers of scapegoating people who share my attraction to
men. But recognizing the overwhelming role that homosexuality has played
in so many of our past and present scandals is not scapegoating. It’s
the Church confronting the truth.
Archbishop Charles Chaput, commenting on the 2005 document, wrote,
“While persistent homosexual tendencies never preclude personal
holiness—homosexuals and heterosexuals have the same Christian call to
chastity, according to their state of life—they do make the
vocation of effective priestly service that much more difficult.” From
my personal experience, I believe there are many reasons why this is the
case, but here I will focus only on two, directly connected with
unchastity.
The first reason is that men with homosexual tendencies find it
particularly difficult to live out the demands of chastity. The vast
majority of scandals in the Church since 2002 involve homosexual priests
profoundly failing in chastity. This is no surprise to me. Chastity,
I’m convinced (and the evidence bears this out), is much harder for men
with a homosexual inclination than for others.
Fr. James Lloyd, C.S.P., a priest with a PhD in psychology from NYU,
has worked with homosexual men (including priests) for more than 30
years as a clinical psychologist. On the subject of chastity and
homosexual priests, he says, “It is clear enough from clinical evidence
that the psychic energy needed to contain homosexual drives is far
greater than that needed by the straying heterosexual.” (Read more.)
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